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The Asheville Family Law Practice at Siemens Family Law Group
Our practice specializes in family law, and we treat our clients with both sensitivity and professional competence. We are devoted to guiding our clients through complex legal environments, and we understand the many challenges involved. Our team is equally comfortable in the courtroom and in alternative dispute resolution settings. We offer and can help you identify the best options for you in resolving family law disputes, including trial, litigation, collaborative law, mediation and arbitration.
We handle all matters that rise from the dissolution of marriages and domestic partnerships, including:
Whether you’re presently dealing with challenging life circumstances or planning for the future, we offer a principled, proactive approach.
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The recent catastrophic storm that hit our area has left an indelible mark on our community, and my heart goes out to everyone affected. As we begin to navigate the challenging road to recovery, I wanted to reach out and address some of the family law issues that may arise in the aftermath of such a disaster.
Traditional custody arrangements can present unique challenges for parents with unpredictable work hours. Read on for tips tailored to your situation.
Are buzzwords undermining your case? The last thing you want to do is detract from the substance of your arguments or make your case appear less credible. Learn which phrases to avoid court.
Clear up some confusion and make it easier for you to communicate effectively with your attorney about your goals and options by learning these legal terms.
Confused about Custody? You’re not alone! Understanding types of custody can help you communicate your goals more clearly in custody discussions or court proceedings.
David is an NC Board Certified Specialist in Family Law. David enjoys getting to know new clients and learning the particulars of their individual circumstances so that he can better understand what they want and need from him.
We are proud to once again partner with the Charlotte Street Business Association, Downtown Asheville Racing Club (DARC), and the Chop Shop Butchery in presenting the 7th annual Consider Haiti July 4th Freedom Gala at the Patton Parker House.
Jim Siemens is included again in the 2023 editions of Super Lawyers, Business North Carolina Legal Elite, and U.S. News Best Lawyers for his work in the area of family law. Siemens Family Law Group also received 2023 U.S. News Best Law Firms recognition.
NC Lawyers Weekly recognized Jim Siemens in its Power List 2022, Family Law edition. According to the magazine, “The Power List recognizes the most respected and accomplished attorneys in an area of practice”. Jim was included alongside 19 other family law attorney honorees across the state.
See What Our Clients Are Saying:
Blog: Testimonials
“I’ve hired David for two different cases so far and I have absolutely nothing bad to say about him. He always got back to me via email/phone extremely quickly and made me feel like my case was important to him. He is extremely knowledgeable and knew all the answers and loopholes to problems thrown at him. He’s the type that doesn’t make enemies with the opposing party and instead tries to work out a solution peacefully which I really came to like. When that doesn’t work, he is able AND will be assertive in court.”
-Inna
“I hired David to represent me during my divorce. He was very professional and gave me sound advice that was in my best interest and was eager to help me understand and navigate the nuances of the situation. At no point during did I feel like he was trying to steer me in a direction to spend more money by going into litigation. He was very responsive and easy to communicate with during negotiations. I would recommend him to friends.”
“Hiring David as my attorney was a great decision and I would definitely recommend him to others! He is dependable and deeply knowledgeable. David is comfortable with the court system and those who work there, which was comforting knowing what to expect when it came time for court. I appreciate his attention to detail and direct personality. He is realistic and never made false promises. So I felt I could trust him and his advise throughout my court case. His office is professional and timely as well, it was never difficult to get a meeting with him. David is a great choice for an attorney.”
-Alivia
“David is an excellent and formidable family law attorney. He is also an outstanding human being; a kind, empathetic, and admirable family man. It is because of David that my child and I were able to build a new and wonderful life. I hired David to represent me in a difficulty divorce/custody case, after having a terrible experience with another attorney at the onset of my court dealings. During our first Zoom consultation, I knew immediately that he was the right person to handle my case because he made me feel safe, seen and heard. He exuded a professionalism and confidence that comes from years of experience in the "trenches" of the family court system. It was clear that he knew the laws and local court milieu backwards and forward. Throughout my case, I appreciated that he consistently educated me, applied and executed family law in the best interest of my child. David listened to me with patience and sensitivity. He guided me with authority and direct communication. He and his assistant Caroline were readily available and quick to respond in a helpful manner. David was sensitive to my financial situation, and was always upfront about billing and how to make the best use of our time. During court proceedings, it was clear that David was an upstanding member of the WNC family court system. He was well respected by every person in the buildings - security guards, opposing counsel and judges alike; I believe because he honored their presence with the same respect and professionalism. In trial, David "gets the job done". He is thorough, more than well prepared, knows how to pick his battles for the best outcome of his client, and is tough when needed. Whether I was seated next to him witnessing the opposing side's case, or across from him while I was on the stand, I knew David had my back. I was able to provide my testimony with confidence and bravery because of his leadership. Yes, David helped me to "win" my case; but, he also helped me to grow as a person. I believe I am a stronger woman and a better mother because of him. I hold David in high regard. Absolutely recommend. Thank you.”
-Kristen
“David Hudson helped me through a recent child custody case. He and Caroline were both always really attentive and made me feel at ease. My goals were accomplished. If I ever need legal assistance in the future, I would hope to work with Mr. Hudson again.”
-Celeste
“I used Jim and his practice to defend my divorce of thirty years back in the summer of 2021. I found Jim to be very direct in his communication, efficient in his methods and fair-minded in his practices. My settlement was reached within seven months of the date of separation and it was favorable from my point of view. Jim was careful not to over-promise and was mindful of how to stay on track and not get distracted by my emotions and unreasonable demands. He used his assistant Dorothy to handle many issues which helped keep down the costs and we moved through the process quickly and without error. It was clear to me that Jim makes a conscientious effort to keep his bills to a minimum by utilizing brief emails for communication when possible instead of dictating letters to be sent.”
“When a neighbor found out I was getting a divorce, she told me of her experience with Jim Siemens Law Firm and gave me his number. With tears in my eyes, I called him. I was feeling hurt, betrayed, and scared. Having to explain this to a stranger was humiliating. But Jim was kind and reassuring. He kept me grounded and focused on what we needed to do. He was professional and his knowledge of NC Law proved to be invaluable. Jim cares about his clients. He and his team are a family that works beautifully together. I would recommend him to anyone needing this kind of help.”
"None of us line up with enthusiasm to get a divorce. Personally, I felt very awkward and out of place in a system that was not designed with me in mind. Fortunately, Jim recognizes, is flexible, and adapts well to the needs of his clients regardless of their circumstances."
"I was involved in a very difficult and complicated divorce and had two attorneys prior to being introduced to Jim. The third time was the charm. Jim was on top of my case and I always felt he had my best interests at heart. I would highly recommend Jim and his staff."
"Thanks for your hard work. I know it has been especially trying and testing. It is like being on a roller coaster that doesn't stop to let you off. Your perseverance has been magnificent."
"Having personally retained the services of Jim Siemens I can say he has earned his reputation as a preeminent family law practitioner in WNC. Jim evaluated my case honestly and cast a clear vision for how we would go about working with the other side "
"I was very overwhelmed by the end of the day [in Court] yesterday. (I held it together until I got to the car. Then the tears flowed from the stress.) It is important for me that you know that I think that you did an incredible job in the courtroom. Your "game" was on! Thank you! [Jim Siemens]"
"Five minutes in to my initial consultation I knew I would be hiring Jim Siemens. He had already come highly recommended by a work colleague. but he put me at ease and explained the process of separation and divorce in North Carolina. He provided me with all my options, best and worse case scenarios."
"I found Jim during my ex-wife and I's separation. He has some good online articles talking about the value of mediation. We had an initial consult and I walked out with a good understanding of the process and was looking forward to following his advice"
"I was very recently divorced in May of 2017. Our divorce was tricky because of our businesses. Jim Siemens and his staff valued and distributed 4 different closely held businesses in our case, while considering tax consequences to me, as"
"I am a guy and I got the house, maintained my financial standard of living, and got primary custody of the kids. Jim has represented me over a few years with actions including mediations, and a custody trial. Jim is thoughtful, careful, methodical, and truthful. "
"Jim handled my case which was very complex. He was honest with me throughout my divorce process and guided me to make decisions based on facts and the law and not my heightened emotions. He is a skillful litigator and was thoroughly prepared for court filings and mediation."
"I have much gratitude for the outstanding work Jim did in my and my daughter's behalf. His dedication and commitment were encouraging throughout this difficult divorce process."
"Jim is an excellent attorney with a highly trained and kind staff who are always professional and fast to respond. I would trust Jim with any case, he is very sharp and very well respected in the legal community."
“Jim Siemens helped me through a very difficult process negotiating a Separation Agreement with my wife of 10 years. He was very patient and gave me excellent advice as I navigated this painful episode. Nobody wins in a family breakup but Jim made the experience less difficult. I am glad I found him.”
Hear What our Clients Have to Say:
Blog: Testimonials
“I’ve hired David for two different cases so far and I have absolutely nothing bad to say about him. He always got back to me via email/phone extremely quickly and made me feel like my case was important to him. He is extremely knowledgeable and knew all the answers and loopholes to problems thrown at him. He’s the type that doesn’t make enemies with the opposing party and instead tries to work out a solution peacefully which I really came to like. When that doesn’t work, he is able AND will be assertive in court.”
-Inna
“I hired David to represent me during my divorce. He was very professional and gave me sound advice that was in my best interest and was eager to help me understand and navigate the nuances of the situation. At no point during did I feel like he was trying to steer me in a direction to spend more money by going into litigation. He was very responsive and easy to communicate with during negotiations. I would recommend him to friends.”
“Hiring David as my attorney was a great decision and I would definitely recommend him to others! He is dependable and deeply knowledgeable. David is comfortable with the court system and those who work there, which was comforting knowing what to expect when it came time for court. I appreciate his attention to detail and direct personality. He is realistic and never made false promises. So I felt I could trust him and his advise throughout my court case. His office is professional and timely as well, it was never difficult to get a meeting with him. David is a great choice for an attorney.”
-Alivia
“David is an excellent and formidable family law attorney. He is also an outstanding human being; a kind, empathetic, and admirable family man. It is because of David that my child and I were able to build a new and wonderful life. I hired David to represent me in a difficulty divorce/custody case, after having a terrible experience with another attorney at the onset of my court dealings. During our first Zoom consultation, I knew immediately that he was the right person to handle my case because he made me feel safe, seen and heard. He exuded a professionalism and confidence that comes from years of experience in the "trenches" of the family court system. It was clear that he knew the laws and local court milieu backwards and forward. Throughout my case, I appreciated that he consistently educated me, applied and executed family law in the best interest of my child. David listened to me with patience and sensitivity. He guided me with authority and direct communication. He and his assistant Caroline were readily available and quick to respond in a helpful manner. David was sensitive to my financial situation, and was always upfront about billing and how to make the best use of our time. During court proceedings, it was clear that David was an upstanding member of the WNC family court system. He was well respected by every person in the buildings - security guards, opposing counsel and judges alike; I believe because he honored their presence with the same respect and professionalism. In trial, David "gets the job done". He is thorough, more than well prepared, knows how to pick his battles for the best outcome of his client, and is tough when needed. Whether I was seated next to him witnessing the opposing side's case, or across from him while I was on the stand, I knew David had my back. I was able to provide my testimony with confidence and bravery because of his leadership. Yes, David helped me to "win" my case; but, he also helped me to grow as a person. I believe I am a stronger woman and a better mother because of him. I hold David in high regard. Absolutely recommend. Thank you.”
-Kristen
“David Hudson helped me through a recent child custody case. He and Caroline were both always really attentive and made me feel at ease. My goals were accomplished. If I ever need legal assistance in the future, I would hope to work with Mr. Hudson again.”
-Celeste
“I used Jim and his practice to defend my divorce of thirty years back in the summer of 2021. I found Jim to be very direct in his communication, efficient in his methods and fair-minded in his practices. My settlement was reached within seven months of the date of separation and it was favorable from my point of view. Jim was careful not to over-promise and was mindful of how to stay on track and not get distracted by my emotions and unreasonable demands. He used his assistant Dorothy to handle many issues which helped keep down the costs and we moved through the process quickly and without error. It was clear to me that Jim makes a conscientious effort to keep his bills to a minimum by utilizing brief emails for communication when possible instead of dictating letters to be sent.”
“When a neighbor found out I was getting a divorce, she told me of her experience with Jim Siemens Law Firm and gave me his number. With tears in my eyes, I called him. I was feeling hurt, betrayed, and scared. Having to explain this to a stranger was humiliating. But Jim was kind and reassuring. He kept me grounded and focused on what we needed to do. He was professional and his knowledge of NC Law proved to be invaluable. Jim cares about his clients. He and his team are a family that works beautifully together. I would recommend him to anyone needing this kind of help.”
"None of us line up with enthusiasm to get a divorce. Personally, I felt very awkward and out of place in a system that was not designed with me in mind. Fortunately, Jim recognizes, is flexible, and adapts well to the needs of his clients regardless of their circumstances."
"I was involved in a very difficult and complicated divorce and had two attorneys prior to being introduced to Jim. The third time was the charm. Jim was on top of my case and I always felt he had my best interests at heart. I would highly recommend Jim and his staff."
"Thanks for your hard work. I know it has been especially trying and testing. It is like being on a roller coaster that doesn't stop to let you off. Your perseverance has been magnificent."
"Having personally retained the services of Jim Siemens I can say he has earned his reputation as a preeminent family law practitioner in WNC. Jim evaluated my case honestly and cast a clear vision for how we would go about working with the other side "
"I was very overwhelmed by the end of the day [in Court] yesterday. (I held it together until I got to the car. Then the tears flowed from the stress.) It is important for me that you know that I think that you did an incredible job in the courtroom. Your "game" was on! Thank you! [Jim Siemens]"
"Five minutes in to my initial consultation I knew I would be hiring Jim Siemens. He had already come highly recommended by a work colleague. but he put me at ease and explained the process of separation and divorce in North Carolina. He provided me with all my options, best and worse case scenarios."
"I found Jim during my ex-wife and I's separation. He has some good online articles talking about the value of mediation. We had an initial consult and I walked out with a good understanding of the process and was looking forward to following his advice"
"I was very recently divorced in May of 2017. Our divorce was tricky because of our businesses. Jim Siemens and his staff valued and distributed 4 different closely held businesses in our case, while considering tax consequences to me, as"
"I am a guy and I got the house, maintained my financial standard of living, and got primary custody of the kids. Jim has represented me over a few years with actions including mediations, and a custody trial. Jim is thoughtful, careful, methodical, and truthful. "
"Jim handled my case which was very complex. He was honest with me throughout my divorce process and guided me to make decisions based on facts and the law and not my heightened emotions. He is a skillful litigator and was thoroughly prepared for court filings and mediation."
"I have much gratitude for the outstanding work Jim did in my and my daughter's behalf. His dedication and commitment were encouraging throughout this difficult divorce process."
"Jim is an excellent attorney with a highly trained and kind staff who are always professional and fast to respond. I would trust Jim with any case, he is very sharp and very well respected in the legal community."
“Jim Siemens helped me through a very difficult process negotiating a Separation Agreement with my wife of 10 years. He was very patient and gave me excellent advice as I navigated this painful episode. Nobody wins in a family breakup but Jim made the experience less difficult. I am glad I found him.”
"From the moment I first walked through the door at Siemens Family Law I knew I was in the right place. The office atmosphere was calm, caring and supportive. Jim listened and made sure we both understood all the aspects of what we were discussing."
